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Middle  Part  (How  To  Never  Run  Out  Of  Things  To  
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Okay. So you’ve opened the conversation and you got her attention. Now what do
you do? Well first of all, you must know the reason for why you are talking to her in
the first place, as that reason must dictate every move and every thing that comes out
of your mouth for the rest of the time you’re spending with her.
When you know your intent, your only focus is on how to communicate that intent in
the most honest, straight-forward and masculine way possible, while not being
too
intimidating (and that’s why picking up hotter women sometimes can be easier than
not-so pretty ones...they are less intimidated by you, in general).
But don’t get me wrong. Intimidation is good, but you want to keep it under control.
You want her to be nervous, but not nervous enough so that she won’t see you again.
It’s a balance you gotta find and it comes with experience.
If I had to give you a number, I would say: 70% comfort, and 30% attraction. And
obviously these two can overlap with eachother (meaning: when you’re building
comfort you can at the same time build attraction as well, and vice versa). It also
depends on where you meet the girl. In a bar or nightclub for example, you won’t
need as much comfort/trust as if you meet her on the street. This is because of
her
belief systems. When she’s at the club, she’s
expecting
to get sexual. In the street,
she’s not.
Imagine that every woman has two lightswitches in her head. Both of these
lightswitches needs to be turned on for her to want to go home and sleep with you.
One switch is called ’Trust’, and one is called ’Attraction’. When you start out
(meaning: you haven’t even looked at eachother), her lightswitches will be at 0
percent on both of them. Then when you open her up and talk to her, those switches
will go up (or down, yes, they can also be
less
than 0 as well).
Depending on how that woman is as a person and her belief systems, she’s going to
have different turning points for her lightswitches. A religious woman who generally
don’t like sex that much, or has to know the person she’s sleeping with to enjoy it,
might need 90% on Trust and 60% on Attraction to sleep with you. A young, white
’daddy’s little girl’ party-freak from Hollywood might only need 10% Trust and 50%
Attraction to get it on with you.
How do you know what type of girl you’re talking to?
*DRUMROLLS*
By asking questions! (Of course)
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You find out what she’s like by asking her questions. You might ask where she’s
from, if she’s feeling sexy, if she thinks about sex often. Whatever. Make the
questions you’re asking interesting so that you don’t bore her to death. But at the
same time, ask them with a purpose.
Some questions you ask might only be for the sake of being funny, making her
relaxed etc. But what you should strive for at all times is:
•
•
•
Build more comfort
Build more attraction
Find out what she’s like, so that you can tailor the rest of what you say to fit
her type
That’s all you have to think about. And just to make it clear, you will not have to
think about these things consciously. As soon as you’ve learned them, you will do it
on autopilot. If you’re in the present and just letting it flow out of you as it may, your
unconscious will handle these calculations for you.
But you have to learn them consciously first!
I feel that it’s time for a couple of examples.
Below are three different pickups I’ve done in the last month. I’ve tried to remember
the conversations as correctly as possible.
The first one, I’m getting a phone number from a black 20-something-year-old in the
New York City subway train. This is how it all played out:
Me: (See a gorgeous, medium-tall, black girl with mini skirt dressed up for party) -
Hey..
She: Uhm..hi
Me: I just wanted to say I like how you look..I’m Tony, how you doin? (smile)
(shaking her hand)
She: Thank you (smile), I’m good..how are you?
Me: I’m fine..what’s your name?
She: I’m Keisha
Me: (Being silent, nodding my head a bit and staring in her eyes like I want to fuck
her)
She: So (becoming a little bit awkward)...what do you do?
Me: Trying to figure out what I should do tonight..if I should hang out with you or do
something more productive
She: Haha..ok, well...I’m going out with some freeeeendz (really black accent on
’friends’)
Me: I don’t mean now...I’m saying later..around 1-2 o’clock?
She: Haha..noo, I’m not that kind of girl
Me: (Realizing she needs more comfort) (Smile) So what do you do you go to school
or..?
She: Uhm..I’m a waitress at Denny’s..I work pretty close to here actually (bla bla bla,
don’t remember the area)
Me: Ok..you like it?
She: Sure..it’s ok. I mean, not the best but at least I get paid, haha
Me: Yea I got you, so you like money huh? I could sense you were a golddigger
She: Golddigger? Haha no..
Me: So what are you then?
She: Just a normal girl
Me: Normal girls are golddiggers, so what you’re saying is you’re one of them?
She: Maybe white girls are, not me...
Me: Ok..so what do you like, romantic stuff or hard, rough sex?
She: Hihihi..stop it
Me: You got a boyfriend?
She: No..I’m single
Me: (Giving her me phone) Put your number in my phone..
She: Uhm..okay :) (putting it in) So you from Manhattan?
Me: Naw...I don’t live here I’m just here in business..I’m from Sweden
She: Oh..so that’s where your accent was from! (bla bla bla)
The conversation went on a bit more before I had to go off. She texted me later that
night and she came over to my hotel at around 2.30 a.m.
So, what are your first impression of this simple, straightforward conversation?
There’s nothing out of the ordinary here. Actually, it’s a very basic, simple, interview-
kind of conversation. The type of conversation that you’ve probably been told NOT to
do by the ”gurus”. But it works because by using questions, I can figure out which
lightswitch I need to work on.
I started out trying to see who the girl was and what I was dealing with. First of all,
when I said ”You look good, how are you doing?”, I essentially wanted to see how
she’d react. The good thing was, she smiled and she greeted me back. Now,
sometimes, if a girl is friendly that could actually mean that she’s not interested and
she’s just playing nice. Actually, that’s how a non-interested girl is going to respond
most of the time.
So I tested her again. This time, by not saying anything. I let the awkward silence
creep in. Since she was the first one to take initiative in the awkward silence, that
means that she was the one who couldn’t bare it. And to me that means that she at
least cares
somewhat
about what I think about her. She likes my interest in her, and
she wants me to keep giving her affection.
But couldn’t this just mean that she just likes the attention?
Not really. If she only liked the attention, she could have just turned away when I got
silent. By then, she’d already have gotten the attention from me. No, because she
enganged herself in the conversation again, that means that she’s interested. At least
to a slight degree. And that’s enough for me, for the time being!
So what did I do next? I tested her again. I said ”I’m trying to figure out what I should
do tonight, if I should hang out with you or...”
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And again, her reaction was positive. She laughed, and she didn’t get defensive or
offensive. She just gave me a simple objection, ”I’m going out with friends”. And if
you’ve ever worked in Sales, you know what an objection mean: Interest!
Yes. That’s right. If a girl comes with an objection to a suggestion of yours, that
means she’s thinking about agreeing to your suggestion, but just needs a bit more
convincing first. She wants to know more of the benefits she’ll get, so that’s why I
responded with ”Not now, but later tonight”. And what that implies is that, ”I want to
FUCK you”. Essentially, I’ve given her a more detailed and specific explanation of
what it is that I want.
And another objection comes up: ”No, I’m not that kind of a girl”. What she really
means is: ”Please turn up my ”Trust” lightswitch a bit more so that I can tell myself
later that I did a good thing by sleeping with you”.
So, that’s exactly what I did. I changed the dynamic of the conversation a bit and
started to build ”comfort” and trust. I asked her if she was going to school, or if she
was working. Just a basic ”get-to-know-eachother” question. And when she
responded with actually explaining
where
she worked, and in what
area,
I take that as
another sign that she’s interested. Because really, would she tell some random pervert
where she worked (perhaps, but I doubt it). By the way I am a pervert as well, but she
don’t know that yet. I then followed up with ”So you like it?”. The reason for saying
that is because a.) it build more comfort b.) I just didn’t what anything better to say.
When you don’t know what to say, just ask her a question regardless if it’s stupid or
not. Because remember the 5 core pillars of a seduction? The words are not that
important. It’s how you say it.
So anyway. I then asked her if she was a golddigger. I took something from what she
was saying (I like to get paid) and turned it around to something humorous. And
that’s another benefit by asking questions instead of just talking. You’ ll be able to
grab something that she has said, and turn it around towards her. That’s how you
manipulate someone and that’s how you get a feel for what they’re really thinking.
But more on this later.
After I said ”Normal girls are golddiggers, so you’re saying you’re one of them?” I
could sense in her answer that I was getting a bit repetitive. When she said ”Maybe
white girls are..not me”, the tone of her voice told me that ”So that’s it? You got
nothing better than that?”.
That’s why I had to move in with a slight ”shocker”, and I’m going to talk more about
them later. I said ”You like romantic stuff or rough, hard sex?”. At that time (since we
where having a pretty normal conversation), it was unpredictable. The excitement of
the conversation was back, and she was more into me than ever. I had now built up
both the ”Trust” switch and the ”Attraction” switch. And that made it possible to go
in for the kill. I said ”Do you have a boyfriend?”, and she replied: ”No, I’m single”.
Cashiiing! To me, replying with ”I am single” if you ask her if she has a boyfriend,
that definitely means she’s interested.
If she weren’t interested but still was single, she’d say that she had a boyfriend just to
get rid of me. So, by this time it was a done deal. I had built up her ”Trust” switch
enough to have her comfortably give me her phone number, and her ”Attraction”
switch was going on 100% since I asked her so much about sex.
I then just said ”Put your number in my phone”. I didn’t need to ask because, it was a
done deal. And also, if I were to ask for her number, I would be activating her logical
mind, and she would run thoughts through her mind like ”Should I really do it?”,
”You don’t even know this guy” etc etc. By just giving her a command, those
thoughts didn’t come up. She happily obeyed what I commanded her to do. She’s a
woman for crying out loud, and women don’t like to logically think about their
decisions. They want (and needs) to be told what to do.
After she had put her number in my phone, I gave her a call straight away to make
sure that she had my number as well. Not really to check if the number was real,
because if it were to be fake, I wouldn’t care. I wouldn’t say ”Oh, you gave me the
wrong number..”. I’d simply just tell the bitch to fuck off.
Anyways. After we had exchanged numbers, I made (what Salesmen call) a post-sale.
This means that I reassured her of what she was going to get, and to once again re-
install the benefits she’ll get from meeting up with me later. I said ”I don’t live here,
I’m just here in business”. This means that I’m only here to fuck her, nothing else.
And that’s exactly what she wanted (as did I).
Ok, so now your brain might go on overload. You might think you need to
consciously think about all these why’s and how’s when talking to women. That’s not
true. Just by learning this, and by practicing a bit, you’ll do everything unconsciously.
It will just flow out of you.
I’d recommend you to practice, in your mind, holding a conversation like this. After a
couple of times, you’ll have it working beneath the surface in real life. Also, I’d
recommend you to pick up a couple of books on ”Selling”. And if you’re working 9-5
now, get a JOB as a salesman. It’s a great way to learn this questionaire-type of
interactions (and all human interactions for that matter) in a more comfortable
environment than going out ”pussy hunting”. Also, you’ll be FORCED to talk to
people. If you don’t, you don’t get to eat. And trust me, when you’re hungry, you’re
going to do whatever it takes to fill your stomach.
Allright. So that was one example of how a pickup could go about if you’re meeting a
girl in a subway train. That’s also how an interaction would go about in the street or
in pretty much any low-energy type of environment outside of a bar and nightclub.
So I guess what you want now is an example of how to pick up a girl in a nightclub?
And maybe, instead of getting a number, just taking her home straight away?
Lets do it.
This is an example from last weekend when I was out hunting in central Orlando, FL.
I don’t remember the name of the club, but it was a pretty small place with black
interior (kind of looked like a Rock bar, even though it wasn’t) and there was these
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